Monday, May 12, 2008

Deleting My Kids

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Does anyone else have multiple versions of the same pictures of your kids (or nieces or pets or grandkids or fill-in-the-blank-with-something-else-that-you-love) because you feel like if you delete the picture you're deleting your kid? When it comes to photography in this digital age, I run with the "take as many shots as you can and one of them is bound to be perfect" camp. I end up with 10-20 pictures of the same pose and have a hard time editing it down to just the perfect ONE. Now that my harddrive is starting to fill up because I have so many pictures (according to my "keyword" counts in iPhoto, I already have 7374 of Annabelle and 1223 of Corgan... but I know there are lots that I missed tagging with a keyword too), deleting photos is getting easier, but I still feel like if I delete a picture, even if it looks just like the previous picture except for a turned up corner in the mouth or something minor like that, then I'm deleting a memory.

Does anyone else suffer from this fear of hitting the delete button?

Sunday, May 11, 2008

My Mother's Day

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Now that I'm a mother, I realize what a big deal Mother's Day is and it makes me so happy to be given the special treatment on Mommy's special day. Today started out with getting to sleep in (or rather, re-sleep in since I was up feeding Corgan before passing him off to Daddy), followed by fixing the A/C, and getting an email telling me that I now have a NetFlix subscription so that Keith and I can have some alone time to watch movies together (YEA!). Then I was treated to lunch with my family at Charlie & Jake's (Yummy BBQ!), followed by a trip to Wickham park to take a picture of me with my kiddies. After the park we were on the way home when Keith pulled into the parking lot of a massage place and told me to get out because I had a massage waiting for me inside! YEA!

I was so difficult when it came to the surprise. Keith purposefully suggested a place that wasn't close for lunch so that we would have to go by the massage place on the way back. While didn't suggest anything else, I did hesitate to go in the first place because it was past nap time and Annabelle hadn't napped yet. We went anyway. :) Then I complained because Keith took the long way (which really wasn't the long way anyway), then complained because he wanted to stop at the park for pictures when I just wanted a little snapshot in front of a tree because I didn't have any pictures that I could find of me with both kids. THEN I complained because he suggested that we go get ice cream in front of Annabelle and I thought we should just go straight home because she was super tired by then. With all of Keith's pushing, we ended up arriving at the massage place at the exact right time, and I got a wonderful neck and back massage (my favorite massage spots... along with my feet)! I sure am a difficult person to surprise (just ask Nikki), but it's always worth it (for me anyway) in the end!

In addition to the wonderful surprises today, Annabelle made some beautiful Mother's Day presents for me at school (and has been saying "Happy Mother's Day" all week... I LOVE that!!!). She made me a card, painted a flower magnet with her picture in it, and decorated a flower vase for me. It's crazy how happy those little crafts can make a Mommy! I LOVE it!

Thank you Keith, Annabelle, and Corgan for a wonderful Mother's Day! I love you guys!

[Pictures of My Mother's Day here]

Cleaning My Bum

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One of the "luxuries" that I had planned for our master bathroom was a bidet (I'm sure any European reading this is laughing at me for calling that a luxury). When we were in Europe, I really liked having one. I had that in the design for our addition long before I started on my green kick, so imagine my surprise today when I start doing research for "eco bidet" to find an eco-friendly bidet and I find out that just the bidet in itself it eco-friendly. It eliminates or at least reduces the need for toilet paper. I don't know why I didn't realize that before. Anyway... so I'm reading about this and find something called the "Washlet" that is apparently all the rage in Japan and Venezuela. So, I hop on over to the washlet website and could not stop laughing (again... Europeans probably laughing at me for laughing at this). The intro is hilarious! The actors each giving their little talk about their section is pretty funny too because they are so incredibly excited about this toilet seat/bidet. However, they totally sold me and I think I'm going to get a washlet for our master bathroom instead of a bidet. They aren't cheap, but once you look at the cost of a bidet, the hardware, and the installation, it's probably about half the cost. Plus, it's green!

And on an unrelated note... our a/c was blowing warm air last night (of course during the hottest day of the year so far!) so I checked the condensate pan and it was full. We had to turn the a/c off so the pan didn't overflow (apparently the auto-shutoff isn't working). I did a little research and found that the problem was probably a clog in the drain and I could possibly fix that with my wet/dry vac. It was already dark and I wasn't going to go crawling around the drain pipe in the dark (especially since I've seen snakes there numerous times), but in the morning I got my wet/dry vac out and VOILA! A/C is fixed! Go me! (I seem to be saying that a lot lately.)

Happy Mother's Day

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Happy Mother's Day to all of my Mommy friends and family. Whether you realize it or not, I'm constantly learning from you all to make myself the best Mommy that I can be. From conversations over lunch, to conversations over the phone, to conversations via email or blogs, there's always something to be learned as each of us has new experiences or old advice to impart on one another. Thank you all for your stories, advice, and support and for welcoming me into your everyday motherhood lives. I know every person I have met has shaped me as a person, but most importantly now as a Mom.

But no one person has shaped me more than my own Mom. She has been, and continues to be, the best example that I could ever ask for. Although her life growing up was not easy, she didn't let that break her. It made her stronger and even more determined to be the kind of Mother who has raised 3 very confident children, 3 children who never hesitate to put other's need before theirs, 3 children who would do anything for their parents, 3 very independent children, 3 children who are not afraid to go after what they want, and, most importantly, 3 children who are not afraid to say "I Love You". Since they both came from broken homes, both of my parents vowed from the very beginning that they would never put their children through what they went through and they were really in it "till death do us part". They always showed us how much they loved each other, which in turn led to us children being more secure in ourselves, in family, and in love. They were always the optimists and always encouraged us to go for whatever we wanted. And no matter how bad we were at something or if we failed, they always let us know how proud they were of us for trying. I firmly believe it was because of the confidence installed in all of us that I was a nationally recognized computer nerd at a young age and graduated from college with honors, my sister was a star pitcher on her fast pitch softball team in college and kicked butt in getting her Master's degree, and my brother won basketball free-throw competitions before he hit puberty and is already starting his professional life with a bang! While my Dad did his share of disciplining, my mom was the true enforcer in the family. Her rules and clear boundaries were always fair (even if they didn't seem like it at the time), and taught us all that there are rules for a reason. I really could not have asked for a better Mommy role model, and hope that I am able to take the best of her mothering skills and add my own flavor into the mix to be even half the Mommy that she is! Happy Mother's Day, Mommy! (P.S. I didn't even get into what an awesome Grammy she is! We'll save that one for later. :))

Here are a few of my favorite Mommy-related pictures from my family over the years.

1947- My mom as an infant held by her mom with her mom watching. (so my Mom, my Grandma Archer, and Great Grandma Montgomery)

1976- This is THE picture that I think of when I think of my mom and I when I was an infant.

1979- My FAVORITE picture of me with my grandmas! They were visiting us after my sister was born. My dad's mom (Grandma Kolumbus or Grandma K) is on the left and Grandma Archer is on the right.

2006- One of my favorite pictures of Annabelle and I. She was at that age where she was starting to notice the camera and wanted to hold it so it was getting hard to get good pictures. The photographer was a friend who just happened to have her camera out and snapped a picture.

2006- A 2 month old Annabelle in a bear/bunny suit waiting our turn for our family Easter pictures with her proud Grammy.

2006- Annabelle at 8 months playing the piano with her Grandmama.

2008- Mommy and her baby boy at the beach for an early evening stroll.

2008- Big hugs between Grammy and Corgan.

2007- Corgan with his Grandmama when they came down to meet him.

Happy Mother's Day, Mamas!!

Saturday, May 10, 2008

Tweet Tweet

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In our quest to ever expand our social-networking prowess, Keri and I are now on Twitter (it's so hot right now). I hacked up some Javascript so our tweets display on this page. So be sure to follow us, but I'm not going to tell you what we're doing right now :-)

On a related note, I hear Twitter is dumping Ruby because it doesn't scale and is considering switching to Java. BOO YAH

Custom Mother's Day Card?

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When I opened my mailbox yesterday, this card was in it: When I first saw it I thought it HAD TO be custom made! It had Keith, Annabelle, and Corgan on it! But nope, not custom... just another perfect card from Pam Hale. Pam is Ben's mom, but more importantly (to me anyway), she married Keith and I. Every since then she has been so awesome about remembering all of our important life's events, and is always sure to send us a card for our anniversary. :) She even gave us a cool wedding night basket for our wedding. The basket included a pomegranate that we were supposed to eat on our wedding night to give us fertility... and apparently it worked. So on top of being thankful to her for marrying us, we owe her for our kids too. :)

Thank you Pam for this special Mother's Day card, and for always thinking of us! Happy Mother's Day to you too!

My Good Mommy-Week

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With the exception of being worried sick about Nikki & Elena, this has been a really good Mommy-week for me.  Keith has been in San Fran for JavaOne all week, and usually when he's gone for long periods of time I start to go crazy because the constant attention that the kids require with no breaks or help from Keith drives me crazy (and because I miss him too, of course).  But this week wasn't like that.  The kids were both really good, and I don't think I had any of those "PLEASE JUST GO AWAY!" moments.  This is especially impressive since Corgan has 2 new teeth coming in, I took both kids to the craft store with me for a 2+ hour shopping trip, there has been lots of banging and drilling going on outside all week (right now those sounds are more like angels singing than annoying noises anyway because it means they're making progress), we went to the Zoo then lunch which ran over both of their nap times, I went grocery shopping, I did about 5 loads of laundry, and I did dishes and pseudo-cleaned the kitchen.  On top of not having any breakdowns, some highlights of the week were getting my first Mother's Day crafts from my little girl (more on that later), going in a little early to pick up Annabelle from school so I got to sit on the floor with the kids and play with them for a while (Corgan is such a hit, and they love to take turns riding on my legs and stuff too), the appreciation from Belle's teacher for her Teacher Appreciation gifts, they made so much progress on the garage and addition, I got a few crafts done, we had fun at the Zoo, we had a relaxing fun time at Benjamin's 3rd birthday party (this was before Keith left, but still... the start of a good week), Corgan seems to have matured a whole month in one week (he's signing, babbling more, climbing up on things, started clapping, seems to have really developed a sense of humor, sitting himself up more, and did a crawl-step yesterday), Corgan and Annabelle seem to be really playing together now, Annabelle didn't have any potty accidents, we had a surprise visit from my Aunt Judy, Uncle Gator (no, not a UF fan), and cousin Caroline, and I even I got Mother's Day cards mailed off early enough that it didn't arrive last minute! :)

To embellish on a few of the things in the list above, for Teacher Appreciation I ended up having Annabelle make cards for her teacher and the floating teachers who have really been helpful with Annabelle during the whole potty-training thing.  I drew a bunny on the front and Annabelle painted them pink (her class is called "Pink Bunnies").  Inside I wrote "Miss ___, Thank you!  Love, Pink Bunny Annabelle" in crayon.  I included Target gift cards in each card (her teacher even happened to mention that Target was her favorite place to shop when I said that we were going there last week, so I knew she'd like it).  Belle's teacher also got a nice picture frame that fit her personality with an awesome picture of her and Annabelle in it.  I don't expect her to display a picture of her and Belle in her home, but I never like to give picture frames as gifts without a personal picture in it even if the picture is only there temporarily, and I figured she can put the picture on her bulletin board at school.

The zoo was loads of fun. We signed up for a family annual pass so I'm sure we'll be going lots more. Both kids were great the whole time. And Annabelle LOVED the dinosaur exhibit (which, unfortunately, ends this weekend). Thanks to The Land Before Time, she's a big dino fan. Hope and Jesse went to the zoo as part of their playgroup and they invited us along to meet the other moms and kids. The core group is all 4 year olds, but one of the moms has a boy who will be 2 in a couple of weeks and she lives ridiculously near me AND her daughter goes to Bellee's school. Annabelle was a little shy, but she likes older kids so she still had fun trying to keep up with the 4 year olds. The moms were quite a diverse group, which I thought was really cool. We'll probably be joining them for more outings in the future.

The garage/addition is really moving along. Right now for the garage we have all of the openings formed out, the plywood is all on the roof, the tar paper is just about done, plumbing rough-in is done, and I think they had an inspection today so they can start on the paneling and finish the roof next week. The addition has the plumbing done and everything is framed out for the concrete. I assume concrete will be poured early next week. In the picture of the garage, you are looking at it from our front door and you'll see the 2 garage doors on the front (to the far left), the regular door and 3rd garage door (for the riding mower) on the side facing the front door, and if you look through the house you can see the holes for the 2 windows. In the "addition" picture, the open framed area on the left that wraps around to the back is the porch and the part with all of the pipes sticking out is the master suite.

This afternoon I got a call from my Aunty Judy (who had apparently called my cell yesterday but I didn't see that she called) who said that she, my Uncle Gator, and my cousin Caroline were on their way up 95 and would be passing my area in about an hour. They were down in Miami picking up Caroline from the end of her awesome Semester at Sea school-on-a-cruise-around-the-world. We met for dinner at the Cracker Barrel around the corner. I got to hear more about her trip and got to visit with the family! They live in Myrtle Beach so I don't get to see them nearly as often as I'd like. They had never met Corgan and last time they saw Belle she was younger than Corgan is now. To sweeten the deal, Aunty Judy bought Belle a huge jawbreaker lollipop on our way out which Belle proceeded to enjoy for the next 3+ hours! :)

There's more that I could write about and I'm SOOO behind on posting pictures (I have 100s from this past month that I still need to share), but I gotta sleep sometime. :) I did manage to post a couple of new albums, so head on over and check them out.

Thursday, May 08, 2008

Nikki is Blogging

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Nikki now has a laptop with her so as long as she's able to, she should be updating everyone about her status on her blog.

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Corgan Clapping and More-ing

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This afternoon Corgan did something cute and I started clapping for him when all of the sudden I realized that he was clapping too! So I tried it again, and he did it again too. It's SOOO cute... AND I managed to get it on video. video

After the clapping I kept the camera rolling and managed to capture Corgan signing "more"! :) He's doing it all of the time now and even did it a couple of times today without any prompting AND for something he wanted "more" of that wasn't even food.  He also signs "puppy" (well, "dog", but I call it puppy when I do it), but that's pretty rare.
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And here's another "Corgan Clapping" video, but my favorite part of this one is Annabelle's line at the end. :)
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Nikki Update

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Just talked to Nikki a little while ago, and aside from being totally bored from having to lay flat on her side with not-so-much interest in TV and having a hard time finding a comfortable position for reading, she sounds like she's handling the situation much better than I would be able to.  She's on true bed rest... none of that "just sit still" crap.  She's flat on her side with strict orders not to move.  She's very groggy from the magnesium, but fortunately, everything seems to be doing it's job since the contractions are practically gone.

A side effect of the magnesium is that it ups your blood sugar so now Nikki's on insulin too. In addition to the magnesium, insulin, and steroids, they're also giving Elena (through Nikki) penicillin because of the UTI that Nikki had a couple of weeks ago.  It's a precaution just in case she does go into labor because as Nikki said it can be dangerous if she passes it along to Elena during labor.

Nik will definitely be in the hospital for at least 48 hours so that they can monitor everything and continue to give her the necessary medications. Keep Nikki, Elena, Halle, and Mr. Mom Jason in your thoughts and prayers!